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In many work meetings, even those where important decisions need to be made, it is common to observe a phenomenon known as «selective listening» or «passive listening». This phenomenon occurs when participants are more focused on what they are going to say themselves rather than actively listening to others. This behavior can have negative consequences for team dynamics and the effectiveness of the decisions made.
Causes of the Behavior (selective or passive listening)
Some causes of this behavior include:
- Lack of communication skills: Not everyone has the ability to listen actively and respond constructively.
- Ego and competition: Individuals may be more interested in highlighting their own ideas than in collaborating.
- Distractions and multitasking: Technology and other distractions can prevent participants from focusing on the conversation.
- Insecurity and fear of judgment: Some people may be concerned about how their opinions will be perceived and therefore focus on preparing their responses instead of listening.
Academic Studies and Specialists
This phenomenon has been studied in academia and at major business schools. Here are some relevant authors and studies:
- Laura Janusik:
- Institution: Global Listening Centre
- Contribution: She has compiled research on listening and highlighted how selective listening affects communication in different contexts.
- Relevant Work: Research Findings on Listening
- Hanne K. Collins, Julia A. Minson, Ariella Kristal, Alison Wood Brooks:
- Institutions: Harvard Business School, Harvard Kennedy School, Columbia Business School
- Study: «Conveying and Detecting Listening During Live Conversation» (2024)
- Contribution: This study reveals that perceptions of listening during live conversations often do not align with the actual cognitive attention of listeners.
- Relevant Work: Conveying and Detecting Listening During Live Conversation
- Phillip Sandahl:
- Institution: Team Coaching International
- Contribution: He has written about the importance of active listening in team communication and how to improve it to avoid selective listening.
- Relevant Work: How To Improve Team Communication with Active Listening
- Aiste:
- Publication: MeetingKing
- Contribution: She has discussed common barriers to effective listening in meetings and how to overcome them to improve communication and decision-making.
- Relevant Work: Effective Listening: The Key to Successful Meetings
Strategies to Improve Listening in Meetings
To address this problem and improve meeting dynamics, several strategies can be implemented:
- Encourage active listening: Encourage participants to paraphrase what others have said before responding.
- Establish clear rules: Ensure that everyone has the opportunity to speak without being interrupted.
- Create a safe environment: Foster an environment where everyone feels comfortable sharing their ideas without fear of judgment.
- Practice curiosity: Ask open-ended questions to promote new thinking and mutual learning.
How to Transition from Passive Listening to Active Listening
The transition from passive listening to active listening in meetings is crucial for improving communication and decision-making. Passive listening often occurs due to a lack of communication skills, ego and competition, distractions and multitasking, as well as insecurity and fear of judgment. To avoid these problems, it is important to create incentives that promote active listening. These can include recognizing and valuing the contributions of all participants, implementing facilitation techniques that ensure every voice is heard, and creating a trusting environment where team members feel safe to express their ideas.
Benefits of Active Listening
Active listening not only improves the dynamics of meetings, but also has numerous additional benefits:
- Improves comprehension and information retention : By actively listening, participants can better pick up on details and remember the information discussed.
- Fosters collaboration and mutual respect : Active listening demonstrates respect for the ideas of others and fosters a collaborative work environment.
- Increase productivity : Meetings become more efficient and productive when all participants are engaged and actively listening.
Conclusion
Selective listening or passive listening is a common phenomenon in work meetings that can negatively affect team dynamics and decision-making effectiveness. However, with the implementation of appropriate strategies and the promotion of a culture of active listening, it is possible to significantly improve communication and collaboration in the workplace. Transitioning from passive listening to active listening requires a conscious effort and the creation of incentives that promote participation and mutual respect.
References
- Aiste. (2023). Effective Listening: The Key to Successful Meetings. MeetingKing. Effective Listening: The Key to Successful Meetings
- Collins, H. K., Minson, J. A., Kristal, A., & Brooks, A. W. (2024). Conveying and Detecting Listening During Live Conversation. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General. Conveying and Detecting Listening During Live Conversation
- Janusik, L. (2020). Research Findings on Listening. Global Listening Centre. Research Findings on Listening
- Sandahl, P. (2023). How To Improve Team Communication with Active Listening. Team Coaching International. How To Improve Team Communication with Active Listening